"Look at the legalized adultery we call divorce.
Men marry one wife after another and are still admitted into good
society; and women do likewise. There are thousands of supposedly
respectable men in America living with other men's wives, and thousands
of supposedly respectable women living with other women's husbands."
- R. A. Torrey From R.A. Torrey's book How to Pray, pages 94-95
R.A. Torrey (1856-1928) was a very well-known Christian writer,
evangelist, pastor, graduate of Yale University, and was also the
superintendent of Moody Bible Institute for 19 years.
TRINITY BARS THE
DIVORCED.; No Remarriage in the Church or Any of the Chapels.
The clergy of Trinity Church announced yesterday that under no
circumstances will divorced persons be married by any of the clergy of
that Episcopal parish, nor will such marriages be permitted either in
the church at Wall Street and Broadway or in any one of the parish's
eight chapels. The announcement was as follows:
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December 7, 1904, Wednesday
Orville E. Swindoll (Brother of Charles "Chuck" Swindoll)
Missionary in Argentina from 1959 to 1991
In early 1967 a group of Christians from varied
denominational backgrounds began meeting on Monday nights in
the home of a businessman in the stately old residential
area of Coughlan in the city of Buenos Aires, Argentina. Our
purpose was to seek the Lord for a spiritual breakthrough in
our lives and in our churches throughout the city. This
weekly gathering initially involved Christians from many
backgrounds, such as: Plymouth Brethren, Baptist, Mennonite,
Evangelical, Union, independent holiness groups, Christian
and Missionary Alliance, and an occasional Presbyterian and
Methodist. Within a few months we experienced quite a
turnaround and many in the group were filled with the Holy
Spirit.
Then the pastors in attendance felt that we needed to start
meeting once a week to try to get a handle on what the Lord
was doing among us, for things were mushrooming around us.
Thus we began meeting on Saturday mornings. These pastors'
meetings continued throughout the years to follow.
In the early or mid 1970's the topic of divorce and
remarriage arose. The Roman Catholic church has
traditionally had a firm stand on this issue, but canon law
was sometimes interpreted in devious ways to allow for
separation and remarriage with canonical permission.
As for the evangelicals, the traditional firmness for years
had begun to break down. As we took stock of where we were
on the issue, we discovered that we were "all over the map".
We decided the time had come to do a serious study of the
Bible on the issue.
Many discussions revolved around what is known as the
"exception clause" (Matthew 5:32). The Greek word porneia
was translated variously as infidelity, fornication,
unfaithfulness or some other sexual irregularity. '
The basic Old Testament passage at the bottom of our dilemma
was Deuteronomy 24: 1-4. Even the Jewish scholars over the
centuries could not seem to reach agreement on this passage.
The discussion arises anew in Jesus' ministry when the
Pharisees press him on the subject of divorce in Matthew
19:3-12. The exception clause is brought up again.
The text of Luke 16: 18 was quite convincing to us. We
concluded that the basic text is the clearest one and
provides the clearest interpretation.
The most amazing thing about our research and reasoning
together is that we all reached the same conclusion. Over
the next several years we were asked to participate in
forums on the issue of divorce and remarriage, and in
seminars and workshops with pastors and church leaders. We
prepared papers on the subject (all in Spanish) and one of
our colleagues wrote a book, which bears the same title in
Spanish as Joseph Webb's book, Until death do us part.
We have developed a common pastoral practice in the hundreds
of congregations under our collegial oversight. We
insist upon the permanence of the marriage bond in God's
sight. If someone is divorced for whatever reason, we make
it clear that he (or she) has two options: 1) either be
reconciled to the legitimate spouse, or 2) continue as a
single person, at least until the death of the spouse.
We understand that the way to move forward is to be
Scripturally clear,
compassionate in our counsel and ministry to those who have
serious marital problems, and gracious toward those who
disagree with us.
We try to remember that truth is not just something we fight
for; it is the foundation of our lives and our families and
it is best expressed in loving concern for those who have
messed up their lives. May the Lord help us to honor him
always.
A Preacher's Repentance From Adulterous Remarriage.
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A
Fellowship, Support & Discussion Forum
Theological Foundations
has an online fellowship and discussion forum for those who
are standing for their covenant marriages and for those who
have repented of adulterous remarriages.
The Hosea Project is an international, nondenominational
effort by volunteers to contact each Pastor and leader of
the Christian Church worldwide with this message of
repentance and restoration.
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