"Look at the legalized adultery we call divorce.
Men marry one wife after another and are still admitted into good
society; and women do likewise. There are thousands of supposedly
respectable men in American living with other men's wives, and thousands
of supposedly respectable women living with other women's husbands."
- R. A. Torrey From R.A. Torrey's book How to Pray, pages 94-95
R.A. Torrey (1856-1928) was a very well-known Christian writer,
evangelist, pastor, graduate of Yale University, and was also the
superintendent of Moody Bible Institute for 19 years.
TRINITY BARS THE
DIVORCED.; No Remarriage in the Church or Any of the Chapels.
The clergy of Trinity Church announced yesterday that under no
circumstances will divorced persons be married by any of the clergy of
that Episcopal parish, nor will such marriages be permitted either in
the church at Wall Street and Broadway or in any one of the parish's
eight chapels. The announcement was as follows:
View full article New York Times
December 7, 1904, Wednesday
Tony Sexton
repented of an adulterous remarriage and reconciled with his
first wife Dawn. Below is his testimony.
For two and one
half years the heavens became as brass in my life, the sweet
fellowship I had known since earliest childhood ceased to
exist and my fellowship with Christ was greatly compromised.
See, I put away my wife for another. And this after having
been a leader in Ministry for many years, having served as
an assistant Chaplain at a county correctional facility
(jail), after leading a Nursing Home Ministry since 1995,
with scores of people who depended on me daily, I failed. I
failed my Heavenly Father, I failed my family, friends,
Ministry and Church.
For these two and one half years there was nothing but
overwhelming conviction, grief, sorrow and shame. First for
an (unbiblical) divorce, and secondly for a (unbiblical)
remarriage. And the important word here is decidedly
unbiblical. In the same fashion God does not recognize a
homosexual union, neither does He recognize an unbiblical
union.
What contributed greatly to my coming to myself was one
chapter of a book, no more than about twenty pages in
length. "The Horrible Thing in God's House: Adultery,
Fornication and Divorce." From David Wilkerson's book "Set
The Trumpet To Thy Mouth." There are two statements from
this book that contributed to my repentance and forsaking
the sin more than any other, allow me to share.
He writes "Oh man of God-- tremble at this curse God
prepared for
priests and ministers who refused to forsake their
immorality. The
Lord will cut off the man that doeth this, the master and
the
scholar, out of the tabernacles of Jacob, (Malachi 2:12).
Not only
will God cut off the anointing, unction, and blessings: He
will
humiliate the offender, destroy his credibility, and cast
his
ministry aside. God has reserved the most fearful prophecies
for
ministers who live and preach in sin."
Think of it, written in 1985 and if for no one else it was
for Tony
Sexton in Kansas City 2001.
The second statement,
He writes "Saints of God, don't look at the way things
appear.
Servants of God cheat on their wives, then go on with new
wives,
apparently still enjoying God's blessings! Not So! You do
not see or
hear of God's judgment on them. You know nothing of the
sleepless
nights, the despair and sorrow that floods in on them. To
live under
God's displeasure is a burden few can bear."
For the good part, on January 12, 2005 my wife and I were
reunited in Marriage. God has performed miracles that time
will not permit to tell with this post, but yes it is true
to repent means to forsake and then restoration and
forgiveness takes root.
The Scripture that was read at the ceremony was adapted from
Zephaniah Chapter 3, and has been very near and dear to us:
"I will gather them that are sorrowful your sorrow has
ended, thee
to whom the reproach of it was a burden, now celebrate. I
will undo
all that afflicts thee, I will save you that halteth and
make you a
remnant. I will bring together the lame and the outcasts and
I will
lead you home, and with your own eyes you will see Me bless
you with all you once owned. I the Lord hath spoken."
In Christ,
Tony & Dawn"
Tony & Dawn
Sexton
P.O. Box 7842
Sugar Creek, MO 64054
amazinggraceministriesinc@yahoo.com
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